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Kelsey - Toronto

 "With his guidance and expertise, I found like-minded community and support.

Before working with Dr. de Wit (I think like many women,) I felt as if things I had experienced in my relationships were only unique to me and felt a sense of isolation or even shame with expectations I felt I couldn’t meet.

 I now have a greater understanding that I am not alone. I understand my wants and needs with greater clarity, how to achieve them through healthy communicative ways, and I place a greater value in myself and my worth." 

Barbara - New York 

"It's quite amazing how working on your sex life affects all aspects of your life. I am powerful in the decisions I make in my life and I'm responsible for them all. 

He has a way of getting in and guiding you to view your life in a way you never thought possible.

After every session Stephen gives me homework and I like to accomplish whatever task he has for me. Through this self reflection, I have understood what it is I am looking for in someone, my non negotiables, and most important boundaries."

James - Miami

 "I can honestly say that I have working with Stephen…he’s challenged me, supported me, helped me get clear on what kind of relationship I want and then coached me to create that very relationship for myself almost exactly!!

 I get a ton of value and looking back, I wouldn’t be where I am today without the work we’ve done together!”

Shauna - California

"When I met Stephen I was "in my head all the time"  analyzing everything I was doing. I realized that approach only made things worse in my relationships.

He has coached me through some of those most challenging life situations with my marriage and my sexuality. He has giving me the tools to be empowered and the voice to communicate my needs

 He genuinely is passionate about what he does and cares about his clients progress thank you Stephen for all you have done for me. The knowledge and skill I have gained from you is priceless."

Brian - Vancouver

"Stephen does an amazing job of making you feel comfortable and safe to talk about how you feel and what you want.

 He is completely open-minded, accepting and non-judgemental. He’s really good at helping you recognize your successes, boosting your self-esteem and motivating you to take further steps toward your goals.

 He is genuinely passionate about helping people and his positivity is contagious. We’ve recommended him to several of our friends."

Amy - Montreal

"Stephen has transformed my relationship to sex, exploding long held attitudes and beliefs and providing a new found freedom in expressing myself in this critical area.

With that freedom has come the power to discover great sex not only for myself but also, more importantly, for my partner."

Aly - Boston

 "I am not the same woman who started on this journey with Stephen.

 My professional and family relationships have also improved, and I now see that I have more power to influence the way others treat me -- much more than I realized.

 I still have a lot of growing to do, but am still stunned at the progress made so far."

 

Laura - Playa Del Carmen

"Understanding that I am a beautiful woman with many good qualities, and loving my body the way it is were the first steps (thanks Stephen!).

 Believing I could have a solid, loving relationship with a good man was the second step (thank you Stephen!).

Getting comfortable with honest communication and vulnerability were the third steps (thanks Stephen!).

 Having and enforcing boundaries were the fourth steps (thanks again!)."

Jackie - New York

"As I started to work with Stephen I was able to see how many layers of protection I had built for myself! There I was a 34 year old woman leading a very small life , never feeling safe and having no voice!

Through our weekly sessions and thought provoking homework the layers started to peel one by one. I now have a voice, I can and DO use.

 Gone are the days where I am the victim and don't use my voice. I now have a toolbox full of all the tools I need to keep me powerful and present in every situation."

Jennifer - Seattle

"Stephen has the ability to balance challenge and support; to be fully present and compassionate and to guide without directing.

He creates an environment of safety where I can be myself , honest, open and share my most painful emotions. Issues that might normally be uncomfortable or awkward.

 I can speak about with comfort and reassurance allowing many thoughts and emotions that have NEVER been spoken about before to be shared, and dealt with."

Siobhan - Toronto

"Stephen opened me up to the possibility of expanding my sexual relationship with my partner.

I am more confident having conversations I would otherwise never have with my partner a week ago.

I am more open to my partners wants and desires and more expressive with my partner. My relationship with my partner has expanded.

I am now aware how lucky I am to be in love with my partner and be fully sexually expressed in my relationship. Thank you Dr. de Wit for this contribution in our life."

Chris - Baltimore

"What I think made the most difference were his powerful questions that really forced me to be critical of all my doubts and fears, ultimately leading me to making the right decision of which I have no regrets doing.

Stephen made me comfortable enough that I could open up about my sexual life in detail and offered direct and effective advice.

He ultimately proved to me and really made me understand that in order to get over my sexual frustrations, I had to develop a better relationship with myself. He enabled me to find the missing piece to the puzzle."

Jackie - New York

"As I started to work with Stephen I was able to see how many layers of protection I had built for myself! There I was a 34 year old woman leading a very small life , never feeling safe and having no voice!

Through our weekly sessions and thought provoking homework the layers started to peel one by one. I now have a voice, I can and do use.

 Gone are the days where I am the victim and don't use my voice. I now have a toolbox full of all the tools I need to keep me powerful and present in every situation."